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Virtue and Vice
1,288. Self-Consciousness
"The truth is, that no man is much regarded by the rest of the
world. He that considers how little he dwells upon the condition
of others will learn how little the attention of others is
attracted by himself. While we see multitudes passing before
us, of whom perhaps not one appears to deserve our notice or
excite our sympathy, we should remember, that we likewise
are lost in the same throng, that the eye which happens to
glance upon us is turned in a moment on him that follows us, and
that the utmost which we can reasonably hope of rear, is to
fill a vacant hour with prattle and be forgotten."
Johnson: Rambler #159 (September 24, 1751)
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1,322. Self-Consciousness;
Vanity
"Distinction is so pleasing to the pride of man that a great part
of the pain and pleasure of life arises from the gratification or
disappointment of an incessant wish for superiority, from the
success or miscarriage of secret competitions, from victories and
defeats, of which, though they appear to us of great importance,
in reality none are conscious except ourselves."
Johnson: Rambler #164 (October 12, 1751)
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